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	<title>Understanding The Psychology and Effects of Abandonment Issues: Recent Comments</title>
	<updated>2008-08-28T16:08:19Z</updated>
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		<title>Comment on Nebraska Allows Parents to Abandon Children Up To 19 Years Old</title>
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			<name>jrayrice</name>
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		<updated>2008-08-24T13:55:44Z</updated>
		<published>2008-08-24T13:55:44Z</published>
		<content type="html"><![CDATA[I share your concerns for the child and family. It is worst is that social service organizations are not funded for the&nbsp;task they already had. Now to called into news cases I fear that the support system network will not be able to handle the additional case load.<BR><BR>I have a even greater concern for the mental well-being of the child or adolescent that is abandoned in a hospital. I am concern that they now&nbsp;may be maintained&nbsp;in a psych-unit because of their abandonment experience.<BR><BR>To me this law clearly shows that we as a society are not supporting the maintain of the family!&nbsp;]]></content>
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		<title>Comment on Nebraska Allows Parents to Abandon Children Up To 19 Years Old</title>
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		<id>tag:blog.itsallaboutabandonment.com,2008-08-24:1307148</id>
		<author>
			<name>melissa</name>
			<uri>http://www.melissashomeschool.blogspot.com</uri>
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		<updated>2008-08-24T15:49:34Z</updated>
		<published>2008-08-24T12:18:58Z</published>
		<content type="html"><![CDATA[These laws, are very hard for me to get ahold of. On one hand the parent has to leave the child at a hospital, a safe place. If they do not leave them in a safe place, then the law does not qualify for them. I think making sure the child is left in a safe place, and not just abandoned in a garbage can, or even worse place, is a good thing. However, I dont completely agree with the no questions asked part of it. Why do they not have to be accountable for what they are doing? What does it do to the legal system, and foster care system. Not to mention what it must do to the child, just being dumped off like they are garbage something. I can see both sides of this discussion, and the one that works for me the best, is the one where the child is safe and in a loving home.]]></content>
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		<title>Comment on J. Ray Rice, MSW, ACSW - Author, Speaker, Trainer, and Radio/TV Guest</title>
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		<author>
			<name>jrayrice</name>
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		<updated>2008-08-24T13:44:46Z</updated>
		<published>2008-08-24T10:03:38Z</published>
		<content type="html"><![CDATA[My hat-off to you for being a foster parent. We need more like you! I too have been a foster parent and I know the behavior your foster son is showing. You are right, he is testing you to see if you love and care for him. What children and teens do is test the limits of your love. In their minds they feel that if there parents didn't love them enough to keep them then they are unlovable. This is the behavior most people show when they have unresolved abandonment issues in their background. The last thing you do is to give-up, but you already know that.<BR> <BR>Yes, he will settle-down once he sees that he cannot push you away!<BR> <BR>In September the 3rd Edition of my book...<STRONG>Thank You for Loving Me! The Psychology of Abandonment, Healing and Love </STRONG>will be sold on Amazon.com. Purchase a copy for him and yourself! This book is written to adolescences!<BR>The first of two work books...<STRONG>What I Must Give Myself...First!</STRONG> will follow in about a week. Give those&nbsp;as well with the assistance of a good therapist.<BR> <BR>His behavior is normal! Your's is insightful!<BR> <BR>Thank you for reading and commenting!]]></content>
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		<title>Comment on J. Ray Rice, MSW, ACSW - Author, Speaker, Trainer, and Radio/TV Guest</title>
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		<author>
			<name>otto ball</name>
		</author>
		<updated>2008-08-24T09:53:42Z</updated>
		<published>2008-08-24T09:00:56Z</published>
		<content type="html"><![CDATA[Abandonment. I was a foster parent had one who came with abandonment issues. Since got out of foster care he was old enough to sign out of foster care. Have had him now two years , he was 16 when he came. We have bonded he is like a son and I am his Father. But he tries to push me away and at the same time he longs for me to stay close. This mixed bag of emotions is so hard for me to deal with. He often tries to hurt me emotionally hoping I won't give up on him like every one else has. Will he ever be able to know I'll always be there no matter what. He took off for a few weeks ended up in county jail. I never gave up on him no matter how difficult he made it. I love he's my son. He is now home with me.]]></content>
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		<title>Comment on Nebraska Allows Parents to Abandon Children Up To 19 Years Old</title>
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		<id>tag:blog.itsallaboutabandonment.com,2008-08-23:1305461</id>
		<author>
			<name>jrayrice</name>
		</author>
		<updated>2008-08-23T12:39:40Z</updated>
		<published>2008-08-23T12:39:40Z</published>
		<content type="html"><![CDATA[Thanks for reading and commenting! My concern is that our social service systems can't cope with there case load presently!]]></content>
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		<title>Comment on Nebraska Allows Parents to Abandon Children Up To 19 Years Old</title>
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		<author>
			<name>regina</name>
			<uri>http://reginasfamilyseasons.blogspot.com</uri>
		</author>
		<updated>2008-08-23T12:36:52Z</updated>
		<published>2008-08-23T11:14:25Z</published>
		<content type="html"><![CDATA[Wow, I don't even know what to say...<BR>This seems fundamentally wrong to me, but I also know of instances where this could have saved a child's life. All parents aren't good at parenting, and child abuse is a very real factor of today's society.<BR>Wow...]]></content>
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		<title>Comment on Resolving Abandonment Experiences with Barack Obama</title>
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		<id>tag:blog.itsallaboutabandonment.com,2008-08-14:1280449</id>
		<author>
			<name>jrayrice</name>
		</author>
		<updated>2008-08-14T10:21:21Z</updated>
		<published>2008-08-14T10:21:21Z</published>
		<content type="html"><![CDATA[Thank you! I appreciate your support and comment!]]></content>
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		<title>Comment on Resolving Abandonment Experiences with Barack Obama</title>
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		<author>
			<name>liz</name>
			<uri>http://craftfrommyheart.blogspot.com/</uri>
		</author>
		<updated>2008-08-14T10:19:14Z</updated>
		<published>2008-08-14T09:04:05Z</published>
		<content type="html"><![CDATA[Your post are wonderful and hit on good subjects. Keep up the great post. Best Wishes]]></content>
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		<title>Comment on My Most Recent Abandonment Experience Is?</title>
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		<id>tag:blog.itsallaboutabandonment.com,2008-08-05:1256549</id>
		<author>
			<name>jrayrice</name>
		</author>
		<updated>2008-08-13T21:12:39Z</updated>
		<published>2008-08-05T17:30:07Z</published>
		<content type="html"><![CDATA[Thank you! We often do not think about all of the life events that cause us to experience "abandonment."<BR>This is a common one, like you pointed out, that causes us to experience abandonment.<BR> <BR>Thanks again!]]></content>
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		<title>Comment on My Most Recent Abandonment Experience Is?</title>
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		<author>
			<name>August</name>
			<uri>http://howtobeapregnantlady.com/</uri>
		</author>
		<updated>2008-08-05T17:26:30Z</updated>
		<published>2008-08-05T17:01:15Z</published>
		<content type="html"><![CDATA[I was pleasantly surprised to see the "miscarriage" option. Until I reached the bottom I thought that it had been overlooked, as it so frequently is.]]></content>
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