2012-02-07T17:32:32Z http://blog.itsallaboutabandonment.com/comments/atom.aspx Quick Blogcast tag:blog.itsallaboutabandonment.com,2012-01-29:15647896 jrayrice 2012-01-29T23:18:39Z 2012-01-29T23:18:39Z <span>Thank you for sharing your discovery! I truly&nbsp;I found&nbsp;that everything is about abandonment and when we don't know this the pain and actions continue.<br /> <br /> Thank you for loving me!<br /> <br /> John</span> tag:blog.itsallaboutabandonment.com,2012-01-29:15635774 JoAnn 2012-01-29T05:13:13Z 2012-01-29T05:13:13Z I accidentally stumbled on this site. While reading the various stories, I found myself trying to hold back my tears because I personally related to the painful feelings carried by unresolved abandonment.I am 69 and have gone to counseling many times for depression. My father was physically and emotionally abusive,but I don't think we ever addressed the abandonment<br />issue.I am depressed again and have an appointment next week with a new counselor. I am going to bring up the possibility of abandonment issues.<br />Thank you for this site. tag:blog.itsallaboutabandonment.com,2012-01-13:15410516 jrayrice 2012-01-14T00:26:48Z 2012-01-14T00:26:48Z <span>Thank you for sharing your insight and I hope that you will continue to find the site valuable.<br /> <br /> Thank you for loving me!<br /> <br /> John</span> tag:blog.itsallaboutabandonment.com,2012-01-12:15319151 Rhonda 2012-01-12T15:25:18Z 2012-01-12T15:25:18Z I didn't see my first major listed, so I emailed as requested. I read a few comments and I'm wondering if the few who said they had "no issues" are in denial. If not, that's wonderful, but you may want to re-think it. How does one with no issues behave? How do you grow in a perfect environment? I've never met anyone with "no issues"...so I'm just wondering. UNBELIEVABLE! My friends and I all seem to be bound by our similar "issues". How do you make any friends when you've never been there or done that?<br />Anyway, this is the best site I've found in a long, long time. Thank you so much! tag:blog.itsallaboutabandonment.com,2011-10-28:12474613 jrayrice 2011-10-28T22:19:18Z 2011-10-28T22:19:18Z <span>I couldn't agree with you more!<br /> <br /> Thank you!<br /> <br /> John</span> tag:blog.itsallaboutabandonment.com,2011-10-28:12474611 jrayrice 2011-10-28T22:16:15Z 2011-10-28T22:16:15Z <span>Thank you for sharing your story! You are on the path to healing by learning to love yourself first and then you will be able to accept others loving you!<br /> <br /> Thank you again!<br /> <br /> John</span> tag:blog.itsallaboutabandonment.com,2011-10-22:12349210 kathy 2011-10-22T21:29:46Z 2011-10-22T21:29:46Z <span> </span>At 38 I just discovered abandoment issues are the root cause of many of my problems. When I was 3 my mother married my step father. When I was 8 they shipped me to my dad and step mom. when I was 9 my dads brother and his wife legally adopted me. Then when I was 12 I was sent back to my mom and step dad. where do I begine the healing process. I finally realized after all of these years that happiness is with in me. even though I have to remind my self of this several times a day. I have a very hard time telling people I love them. It almost feels like you have to pry it out of me with pliers. And it is rarely genuine. Thank you for listening to my story. tag:blog.itsallaboutabandonment.com,2011-09-01:11556561 melissa 2011-09-01T10:53:27Z 2011-09-01T10:53:27Z Thanks.<br /> <br /> People's health is important to lead a peaceful and happy way of life. Healthy benefits of a non-human world is difficult to take delight.<br /> tag:blog.itsallaboutabandonment.com,2011-07-31:11242555 jrayrice 2011-07-31T20:27:57Z 2011-07-31T20:27:57Z Thank you! I will start back writing!<br /> <br /> Thank you for loving me!<br /> <br /> J. Ray Rice tag:blog.itsallaboutabandonment.com,2011-07-31:11242553 jrayrice 2011-07-31T20:23:27Z 2011-07-31T20:23:27Z Thank you for commenting!