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The Effects of the Unresolved Abandonment Issues of George Sodini
I offer see searches to my blog on the subject of...the abandonment issues of men! The actions of George Sodini at a gym shooting provides a teachable moment on this subject. I will write more when information has been made public that will identify his core abandonment issues. If you click on his name you will read information from his blog on CNN and here is a second link to his full blog on ABCNews.
Like the other killers I have profiled on my blog I am not excusing their actions, but providing understanding into the dynamics that produced their behaviors. I want you to understand that...its all about abandonment! It is reported that George Sodini wrote that he has not had a girlfriend since 1984 and no sexual relationships since 1990 when he was 29. It is also reported that he hated his mother and women. These events are caused by issues of abandonment.
In my ongoing survey that you will find below... I ask readers to identify their most current abandonment experience...rejection is number one! Our failure to understand the impact that abandonment experiences have on us continues to be overlooked in our behaviors and reactions to life's events. This is why I have spend my life's work since high school in understanding the psychology and effects that unresolved abandonment experiences have on everyone, some more than others.
Thank You for Loving Me! The Psychology of Abandonment, Healing, and Loving has been written during a 30-year span of my professional and personal life assisting people resolving their abandonment issues. I hope that you will use it alone with What I Must Give Myself...First to identify and facilitate the healing process of your unresolved abandonment issues.
Related articles (they will open in a new window):
Like the other killers I have profiled on my blog I am not excusing their actions, but providing understanding into the dynamics that produced their behaviors. I want you to understand that...its all about abandonment! It is reported that George Sodini wrote that he has not had a girlfriend since 1984 and no sexual relationships since 1990 when he was 29. It is also reported that he hated his mother and women. These events are caused by issues of abandonment.
In my ongoing survey that you will find below... I ask readers to identify their most current abandonment experience...rejection is number one! Our failure to understand the impact that abandonment experiences have on us continues to be overlooked in our behaviors and reactions to life's events. This is why I have spend my life's work since high school in understanding the psychology and effects that unresolved abandonment experiences have on everyone, some more than others.
Thank You for Loving Me! The Psychology of Abandonment, Healing, and Loving has been written during a 30-year span of my professional and personal life assisting people resolving their abandonment issues. I hope that you will use it alone with What I Must Give Myself...First to identify and facilitate the healing process of your unresolved abandonment issues.
Related articles (they will open in a new window):
The Common Denominators of Unresolved Abandonment Issues and Guns in Mass Murders
What Is Your "Core Abandonment Issue?"
My Most Recent Abandonment Experience Is?
Abandonment Issues...The Answers To Human Behaviors
Adult Males Must Abandon Fathering Teenagers' Babies
What Is America's Most Pressing Abandonment Issue as a Nation?
Should Americans Abandon Their Rights to Bear Arms?
How Unresolved Abandonment Issues Affected Robert Hawkins
Posted by jrayrice at 8/5/2009 11:00 AM 
Categories: Murder-Suicides
Tags: children mass muders women suicides shootings health clubs families drug abuse guns George Sodini unresolved abandonment issues of men
Categories: Murder-Suicides
Tags: children mass muders women suicides shootings health clubs families drug abuse guns George Sodini unresolved abandonment issues of men
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8/6/2009 8:03 PM
Understanding The Psychology and Effects of Abandonment Issues wrote:
I credit ABCNews for all of the quoted text I am used from George Sodini's blog. I have yet to hear or read an analysis of George Sodini's behavior and blog in terms of abandonment issues. Understand the events and actions are all about abandonment. Everybody seems to be missing this in their understanding of the events that cause human behaviors. I hope with this analysis provides an deeper understanding of how abandonment affects us. Then, maybe we can began treating and teaching what is important! George Sodini in his pathology provides this opportunity.Acts of abandonment occurs normally in all ... -
8/6/2009 8:22 PM
Understanding The Psychology and Effects of Abandonment Issues wrote:
I credit ABCNews for all of the quoted text I am used from George Sodini's blog. I have yet to hear or read an analysis of George Sodini's behavior and blog in terms of abandonment issues. Understand the events and actions are all about abandonment. Everybody seems to be missing this in their understanding of the events that cause human behaviors. I hope with this analysis provides an deeper understanding of how abandonment affects us. Then, maybe we can began treating and teaching what is important! George Sodini in his pathology provides this opportunity.Acts of abandonment occurs normally in all ... -
8/6/2009 8:42 PM
Understanding The Psychology and Effects of Abandonment Issues wrote:
I credit ABCNews for all of the quoted text I am used from George Sodini's blog. I have yet to hear or read an analysis of George Sodini's behavior and blog in terms of abandonment issues. Understand the events and actions are all about abandonment. Everybody seems to be missing this in their understanding of the events that cause human behaviors. I hope with this analysis provides an deeper understanding of how abandonment affects us. Then, maybe we can began treating and teaching what is important! George Sodini in his pathology provides this opportunity.Acts of abandonment occurs normally in all ... -
8/7/2009 9:52 AM
Understanding The Psychology and Effects of Abandonment Issues wrote:
I credit ABCNews for all of the quoted text I am using from George Sodini's blog. I have yet to hear or read an analysis of George Sodini's behavior and blog in terms of abandonment issues. Understand the events and actions are all about abandonment. Everybody seems to be missing this in their understanding of the events that cause human behaviors. I hope with this analysis provides an deeper understanding of how abandonment affects us. Then, maybe we can began treating and teaching what is important! George Sodini in his pathology provides this opportunity.Acts of abandonment occurs normally in all ... -
8/7/2009 10:20 AM
Understanding The Psychology and Effects of Abandonment Issues wrote:
I credit ABCNews for all of the quoted text I am using from George Sodini's blog. I have yet to hear or read an analysis of George Sodini's behavior and blog in terms of abandonment issues. I believe it is important to understanding that these events and actions are all about abandonment . Everybody seems to be missing this in their understanding of the events that cause human behaviors. I hope with this analysis provides an deeper understanding of how abandonment affects us. Then, maybe we can began treating and teaching what is important! George Sodini in his pathology provides ... -
8/7/2009 10:31 AM
Understanding The Psychology and Effects of Abandonment Issues wrote:
I credit ABCNews for all of the quoted text I am using from George Sodini's blog. I have yet to hear or read an analysis of George Sodini's behavior and blog in terms of abandonment issues. I believe it is important to understanding that these events and actions are all about abandonment . Everybody seems to be missing this in their understanding of the events that cause human behaviors. I hope with this analysis it provides a deeper understanding of how abandonment affects us. Then, maybe we can began treating and teaching what is important! George Sodini in his pathology ... -
8/7/2009 7:32 PM
Understanding The Psychology and Effects of Abandonment Issues wrote:
I credit ABCNews for all of the quoted text I am using from George Sodini's blog. I have yet to hear or read an analysis of George Sodini's behavior and blog in terms of abandonment issues. I believe it is important to understanding that these events and actions are all about abandonment . Everybody seems to be missing this in their understanding of the events that cause human behaviors. I hope with this analysis it provides a deeper understanding of how abandonment affects us. Then, maybe we can began treating and teaching what is important! George Sodini in his pathology ... -
8/7/2009 7:35 PM
Understanding The Psychology and Effects of Abandonment Issues wrote:
I credit ABCNews for all of the quoted text I am using from George Sodini's blog. I have yet to hear or read an analysis of George Sodini's behavior and blog in terms of abandonment issues. I believe it is important to understanding that these events and actions are all about abandonment . Everybody seems to be missing this in their understanding of the events that cause human behaviors. I hope with this analysis it provides a deeper understanding of how abandonment affects us. Then, maybe we can began treating and teaching what is important! George Sodini in his pathology ... -
8/9/2009 12:31 AM
Understanding The Psychology and Effects of Abandonment Issues wrote:
I credit ABCNews for all of the quoted text I am using from George Sodini's blog. I have yet to hear or read an analysis of George Sodini's behavior and blog in terms of abandonment issues. I believe it is important to understanding that these events and actions are all about abandonment . Everybody seems to be missing this in their understanding of the events that cause human behaviors. I hope with this analysis it provides a deeper understanding of how abandonment affects us. Then, maybe we can began treating and teaching what is important! George Sodini in his pathology ... -
8/9/2009 11:10 AM
Understanding The Psychology and Effects of Abandonment Issues wrote:
I credit ABCNews for all of the quoted text I am using from George Sodini's blog. I have yet to hear or read an analysis of George Sodini's behavior and blog in terms of abandonment issues. I believe it is important to understanding that these events and actions are all about abandonment. Everybody seems to be missing this in their understanding of the events that cause human behaviors. I hope with this analysis it provides a deeper understanding of how abandonment affects us. Then, maybe we can began treating and teaching what is important! George Sodini in his pathology provides ...
Very interesting article I will be looking for future post on this topic.
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I have just discovered your blog and the other website, "It's all about abandonment".
I notice you have not posted on the blog since September. I hope you will keep that up!
Your ideas are very, very compelling and heartening too.
I'll probably say some more to you but I must rally myself and get to work. I have a class to teach soon.
All the best to you.
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Thank you for your kind words! I promise to continue posting this month over the holidays!
It's great to be missed!
Thanks!
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