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• 1/8/2008 6:54 PM BT Cassidy wrote:
  An insightful article into an all too common theme. Abandonment issues explain a great many events of this ilk in society- we often see the issue buried beneath media outcry against existing influences (music, video games, etc) without properly acknowledging that these are in fact symptoms of abandonment.
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• 1/8/2008 8:35 PM jrayrice wrote:
  BT, I can't thank you enough for taking the time to read my article and comment on its content. I have been studying this 36-years and I hope to get people to understand that abandonment is the issue we need to treat!
  
  Thanks again!
  
  P.S. - Check-out the article on Andrew Cunanan.
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• 8/6/2010 11:10 AM Vince wrote:
  Wow. I just finished reading this because I was looking for some discussion surrounding the issue of abandonment. I was looking because I believe my mother leaving me when I was 18 months old has affected so many things in my life negatively. I see parallels with my teenage self and Robert-I am 42 now and am thankful I didn't act as he did. I struggle daily with the effects of abandonment. I thank you for taking up the charge and at least trying to make people understand the effects of it on human behavior. In short, it sucks. In long, I have trouble controlling my anger if things seem "unfair", or I am forced to accept punishment (wife being upset with me and withdrawing her affection), I feel as though I am never able to get enough of someone touching me, holding me, loving me. When I don't get it from my wife-who is supposed to provide it- I grow sullen, withdrawn and depressed. I want to run away and be alone and live only at night, under cover of darkness, if at all. I stay because I have kids and could never abandon them but I fear staying with someone who doesn't give me what I require-I am beyond need. I have grown so resentful of my wife and I am so lonely in my adult life and I feel it all ties back to my mother. My father was worthless also-he left me completely unprotected from all the ugliness that life has to offer. Sometimes it feels like it is only my burning desire for revenge that keeps me alive. Both of my parents are still alive but I have completely withdrawn from them-neither one has seen their grand-kids and I will burn in hell before they do. So, think twice before you reproduce. Be there for the ones you create.
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• 8/16/2010 9:45 PM jrayrice wrote:
  Vince I hope you will have the opportunity to read my book, Thank You for Loving Me!
  Here is an example!
  
  "I am sorry for the pain that I see in your eye and feel in your heart.
   I ask that you forgive me and I understand why you cannot!
  At least for now!
  
  Vince our parents can only give us what they have. They can't take us where they haven't been. 
  Your insight is keen and you are a loving man and loving father.
  You have to fulfill yourself!
  
  Thank you for taking the time to read my article and share!
  
  John
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• 10/18/2010 3:57 AM MicroConsole wrote:
  I can see that you are an expert in this field! I am launching a website soon, and this information is very useful for me. Thanks for all your help and wishing you all the success in your business.
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• 11/9/2010 7:08 AM jrayrice wrote:
  I cannot thank you enough for taking the time to read my articles and comment on them!
  
  Thank you and please keep reading!
  
  John
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